As a heart-, purpose-, passion-driven coach, healer, entrepreneur you have probably encountered people who just don’t understand your work.
They say things like:
Does your brain ever quit?
Must be nice to make your own schedule.
Must be nice to have your own business.
Must be nice to be your own boss.
Who pays for your health insurance?
Why do you want to work so hard?
Why do you care so much?
I don’t get why it matters so much to you to help people.
I don’t understand the mind of a business owner.
When you hear it over and over it’s hard to feel like they actually believe in you.
Maybe you have felt that they just don’t get it and never will and you have wondered why they are still in your life.
Do I need to divorce this person who doesn’t really believe in my work like I do?
Do I need to unfriend all my old friends? They just don’t get it. They sometimes seem jealous that I’m happy.
Do I need to move away and just start over with friends and a partner?
If these questions have ever crossed mind, you are a normal human!
When you feel so passionate, you want others to feel that same passion. It’s natural. When they don’t, you can feel let down.
That really stinks, doesn’t it?
Feels kind of like carrying a burden by yourself.
Cue Céline Dion… All by myseeeelf. 🙂
Fear not, you don’t have to dump all your friends and leave your partner.
There’s just one thing you must do.
Get friends who get it. It’s that simple.
You don’t have to delete all your contacts and start fresh. You just need friends who also feel the passion and the feelings and struggles of being heart-led entrepreneur.
You need your community. Not one that you lead, but one where you get support.
Having a lack of friends who you can talk about your passion and biz with is SCARCITY. Scarcity in one area of your life creates scarcity in your business, money, and even your love life. Ummm. You don’t have time for that. You’ve got a mission, people to impact, wealth to create!
Get out there are join a group. Join a mastermind. Get networking…you’ll make friends and help your biz.
If you want a group to go deep with I’d love for you to join me and the gang over in my Facebook Group OWN YOUR MAGIC where we talk about all the things that entrepreneurs struggle with and support one another’s growth and living in a good vibration.
If you’re not in and you want to be, click here. I’d love to have you. We are amping up around the idea of no longer playing small. If you want more for yourself and you want support, please join us.
I am also starting an exclusive mastermind for “high-achieving and still want so much more” spiritual women entrepreneurs. It’ll be a 9-month commitment and a 5-figure investment. It’s for the woman who is serious about moving her business and mission into premium offerings and setting sights on crafting her legacy. If that is you and you want more details when I roll them out, reach out and ask about the Limitless Leader Mastermind. I’m only inviting 12 women. Is that you? Let’s talk.
Take heart. Please. Get yourself a community that you can be honest with about your passion and business and NOT have to dim your light for. Ok?
The world needs you to feel good so that they can be helped by you and your gifts.
Someday is too long to wait.
About the Author:
Rebecca Wiener McGregor is an Amplifier of Love and catalyst for breakthroughs! She shares her gifts as a transformational hypnotist + money mindset coach committed to helping visionary women live their Truth, step into their Divine Purpose, and create the life of their dreams. Over the last 17 years, she has helped thousands of clients to release old blocks, traumas, loss, and hidden fears to find a deeper sense of self-worth and determination to live life on their own terms. Using that self-worth and determination as fuel to create the life they’ve been dreaming of with deeper connection, more joy, more impact, wealth, and more fun!
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